Dear Weslea,

My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years and we’ve been living together for 4 of those years. A few months ago he was invited to one of his friend’s weddings (emphasis on HE). The invite came to OUR house, but only HIS name was on it. To make matters worse, the RSVP card specifically indicates that the guest list is tight and that people should only attend if their name is on the invite. I feel snubbed.

My boyfriend and I are practically married. 4 years we’ve been living together. I’m tempted to call the bride to see if it’s a mistake. But - if it’s not, I’ll be humiliated. I’m pretty certain that if people are living together its common knowledge that you invite both of them. I didn’t think you were supposed to pick and choose. What should I do? 

-Angry in Nunda 

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